For our reflection this Sunday, I will emphasize the protagonist in the parable of the Prodigal Son: the Father of mercy, the Father who restores, and the Father who seeks us. In the parable of the father and his two sons, we identify with the younger son, who, like the Pharisees, scribes, and sinners, represents those who have alienated themselves from the Father's presence and house through their selfish choices. We identify with the wayward son and also his self-righteous older brother because we mirror them. But there is also a need for us to turn our attention to the father. Focusing on the profligate father helps us overcome the sadness or despair that may discourage us from approaching the Father of mercy for pardon for our sins. Our Father shares in our pains and wants us to be alive and restored to our dignity as His beloved children.
In the Gospel for this Sunday, Luke portrays an image of a father's love and compassion for his sinful son. Before the son began the journey back to him, the father was already longing for his return and on the lookout for him: "While he was still a long way off, his father caught sight of him, and was filled with compassion. He ran to his son, embraced him and kissed him." (Lk 15:20). We have a father who is interested in our restoration, not resigned to our failure and guilt. We have a Father ready to share in our pain of alienation, the scourge of our sins; a Father who finds joy in our revival, not our demise; a Father who celebrates our restoration with feasting. On this Rejoice Sunday, let us rejoice in this Father and celebrate our God of mercy and compassion.
Let us find our way back to him in humility, aware that he wants our salvation more than our wallowing in sin and guilt. The revelation of a Father willing to restore us to our original state of grace opens us to repentance. We can confidently return to him in repentance after discovering the emptiness of our rebellion and alienation from the merciful Father. How do we go about conversion and restoration? We draw from the example of the prodigal son. We derive a process from the return of the sinful son to his merciful Father. The Catechism of the Catholic Church captures the process in the following paragraph:
"The process of conversion and repentance was described by Jesus in the parable of the prodigal son, the center of which is the merciful Father: the fascination of illusory freedom, the abandonment of the Father's house; the extreme misery in which the son finds himself after squandering his fortune; his deep humiliation at finding himself obliged to feed swine, and still worse, at wanting to feed on the husks the pigs ate; his reflection on all he has lost; his repentance and decision to declare himself guilty before his Father; the journey back; the Father's generous welcome; the Father's joy — all these are characteristic of the process of conversion. The beautiful robe, the ring, and the festive banquet are symbols of that new life — pure worthy, and joyful — of anyone who returns to God and to the bosom of his family, which is the Church. Only the heart of Christ who knows the depths of his Father's love could reveal to us the abyss of his mercy in so simple and beautiful a way" (CCC 1439).
We have a template for conversion and repentance in the account of the prodigal son, as illustrated in the Catechism paragraph above. What we need to do now is to echo that path to restoration. The Holy Spirit is always at work in turning our hearts back to God. God always supplies the grace to turn our hearts of stone into hearts of flesh. The only thing needed is to be humble enough to realize our need for conversion and restoration. We have a merciful Father, filled with love and compassion, who waits to lavish His embrace and kisses upon us. Why wait another minute to return to the Father in the Sacrament of Mercy and Reconciliation? Let us rejoice in this Father; let us celebrate His great mercy.
In the Joy of the Father,
Fr. Bernard Alayode, OP